Some Family Law lawyers don't prepare for mediation in a way that gives them the best chance to settle their dispute.  Here are some suggestions that will improve the chances of reaching resolution.

First, make sure the mediator has all pleadings, orders, motions and affidavits.  This will ensure the mediator has the history of the litigation.  If there is a Guardian and they have filed a report, then forward that as well.

Next, work up the financial piece.  If you are a Settlyd Member, perhaps you want to target a specific amount of support (child support, spousal support, or both). Settlyd's Child Support/Net Income calculator will do this for you.

Prepare your asset division worksheet.  Settlyd will populate it automatically, so all you will have to do is work up your proposed division and print.

Print you financial declaration: Again, if you are a Settlyd member, its easy.  The key, however, is to make sure you print with the confidentiality statement and that you notate accurately and thoroughly.

Finally, are there any novel legal issues?  If so, point them out and do your research. Provide a summary of the law and how it applies, or is distinguished from, the facts of your case.

Next, prepare a written position statement.  This ties all the above docs together and is your opening and closing argument setting forth what you want and why.  Then print/save a copy of everything and you are ready to go.

One more thing, provide this package to your mediator at least a full 24 hours prior to the scheduled mediation, so she/he has ample time to get up to speed.

I hope you find this helpful!

Guy Vitetta

Charleston